I'm going to talk about a difficultfor blacks & hispanics that only comes up in whispers.
Incest & rape is something your grandma or other family members discuss only when they're forced to . You know , like why you're cousin looks nothing like anyone else in the family, or what aunt so & so has real wild ways. Or how come my daddy can't come around ( or male or female cousin, unckle , aunt ,family friend) It's something that tears the family apart and everyone blames someone. It's always someone you can't beleive did it & nfortunately in our culture , we fail to get the help that mentally we need . We always hear from the older side of our family to let it be and let god fix it. But what bout all the pain that needs to come out.So then that pain would be left for whomeveryou choose to share your life with.Honestly ,anybody who feels like they have to attacka child in their family is sick. You're a lower than the average rapist.Why touch someone who has your ancestry running through , your eyes , your swagger, everything. No excuse. Now lets talk about rape. While i don't condone prostitution, this is someone who is willing to indulge in your sexual appetitie to an extent. With that being said ,why do you have to take something from someone that is so precious and can not be given back.
It's not like beating someone down. Wounds can heal. But do you know how long self -esteem ,pride & trust takes to be rebuilt. You deserve to die.
Now for the victim.
You are not at fault.
But if you continue to hold on to the pain and rejection, you will continue to be a victim.
Be that last man standing , get the help needed and let somene who truly loves you elevate youo back and beyond where you are. But most important , do you and take you back.
Always remember, somewhere there is someone who loves you and will unconditionally give their all to protect and love you from inside and out.
8Th & Line Camden to Diego back to Va.
Cipha Loves you
To those in mylife , when i was smaller i couldn't protect none.
But i promise i will protect all that i can.